As human beings we have this powerful ability to sabotage ourselves, even though we want to move in a positive direction. There are very powerful subconscious and unconscious drives, based on beliefs that are also unconscious, that drive us, that control our behaviour, that control our lives. We avoid accepting personal responsibility; we get involved in co-dependent relationships; we attract what we don't want into our lives.
How is this possible.? How come we attract the exact opposite of what we want for ourselves? Why do we behave in ways that are counterproductive for us?
These behaviours cover a very wide range, but in general, they have a single cause. The root cause produces unconscious beliefs that govern our behaviours.
The root cause can be a single, life-shattering, traumatic event, or it can be an ongoing drip-feed of negative comments especially during childhood. But whatever the cause, the result is the same, and it’s responsible for our unconsciously controlled behaviours.
How is this possible.? How come we attract the exact opposite of what we want for ourselves? Why do we behave in ways that are counterproductive for us?
These behaviours cover a very wide range, but in general, they have a single cause. The root cause produces unconscious beliefs that govern our behaviours.
The root cause can be a single, life-shattering, traumatic event, or it can be an ongoing drip-feed of negative comments especially during childhood. But whatever the cause, the result is the same, and it’s responsible for our unconsciously controlled behaviours.