How is this possible.? How come we attract the exact opposite of what we want for ourselves? Why do we behave in ways that are counterproductive for us?
These behaviours cover a very wide range, but in general, they have a single cause. The root cause produces unconscious beliefs that govern our behaviours.
The root cause can be a single, life-shattering, traumatic event, or it can be an ongoing drip-feed of negative comments especially during childhood. But whatever the cause, the result is the same, and it’s responsible for our unconsciously controlled behaviours.